We knit dreams regarding how exciting and fascinating our relationship would be. However, here are some examples which tell sometimes our expectations may seem far from reality.
Expectation No. 1: He’ll have all important dates on fingertips
When you are in a relationship, you expect that he’d remember the date when you had the first kiss, when you officially dated each other, when you said YES, and blah blah. But the reality is sometimes he forgets to wish you on your birthday.
Expectation No. 2: Waking up to his beautiful ‘Good Morning Sunshine’ kind of messages
When you wake up, you expect to see his cute-little message flashing on your cell phone screen. But in reality, he is not a morning person and snores until noon, and you’re the one who calls him to know if he’s alive.
Expectation No. 3: You share mutual feelings for getting hitched
Your imagination says that you and your boyfriend are equally excited about marriage. But in reality, when you discuss the idea of getting married, he considers it as a joke or starts talking about something else.
Expectation No. 4: He organizes perfect candle light dinner on your special day
Be it your birthday, anniversary or any other occasion, you want him to make it special with a romantic candle light at your favorite restaurant. However, in real life, chances are that he won’t remember the occasion, and if he does, he’ll ask you to place an order for two.
Expectation No. 5: He wants to take you for long drive on weekends
While you dream of him taking you for a long drive this weekend, there is a high probability that he has made some chilling plans for himself, playing video games, watching movies at home, etc.
Expectation No. 6: He desperately wants to be with you
Asking you to come to his place and have some good time together may seem quite an expectation. In reality, you pay an uninvited visit to his house, ask for his time, and to this, he responds, “Sweety, let me finish this last level of the game. I swear it will end in a few minutes.” And here, a few minutes mean a few hours!
Expectation No. 7: He will fall short of words every time he sees you
You expect him to instantly come up with marvelous shaayris and compliments every time he sees you. But in reality, you’ve to ask him ‘How am I looking baby’? And his response (Looking nice) will always be the same no matter what.
Have these instances happened to you in your relationship? If yes, then share them in the comments section below.